Being Social with Strangers

It’s that time of year when many of us attend holiday parties at work, in our buildings, and with other organizations we participate. While not always the case, these parties often include strangers we’ve never met before. Starting conversations with strangers at social events can be intimidating, but it can become more comfortable with some practice and the right approach. Here are some tips to help you initiate conversations with strangers:

1. Smile and make eye contact: A friendly smile and maintaining eye contact can signal your openness and approachability, making it easier for others to initiate a conversation with you or for you to start one.
2. Offer a warm greeting: A simple “Hello” or “Hi, how are you?” is a great way to start a conversation. It’s friendly and non-threatening.
3. Use open body language: Stand or sit in an open and relaxed manner. Avoid crossing your arms, which can make you appear closed off.
4. Compliment or comment on something specific: If you notice something interesting about the person you want to talk to, like their clothing, a piece of jewelry, or something in the environment, use it as a conversation starter. For example, “I love your necklace; where did you get it?”
5. Ask open-ended questions: Open-ended questions encourage extended responses and keep the conversation…